

After reading "Two Families Grapple with Sons' Gender" got me to thinking about my three year old son. My son is around his two girls cousins alot. One of my niece love Dora and the other likes all the princess characters. I hear my son saying he is a princess and I immediately correct him that girls are princess and boys are princes. I also took notice that my son would want to buy a girl toy from timt to time but I redirect him that he have to get a toy for a boy. Do this make me a bad mother that is not letting her son make his own choices or not letting him to explore girls toys? Am I fighting sometime within me? This topic really got me thinking about my bias.
References
Spiegel, A. (2008). Two families grapple with sons’ gender identity: Psychologist take radically different approaches in therapy.
Trecy,
ReplyDeleteI also keep thinking about this issue. I have a son too, and he keeps asking me to buy some girl's toys, such as pink stroller or purple purse. At first, I thought it was funny and then I started being upset, but now I realize it is totally age-appropriate and if he is comfortable playing with it, I let him. I think parents; first reaction is that something is wrong with their child, but instead they need to be talking to their children about diversity and differences among people.
Hi Trecy,
ReplyDeleteYou provided your son with a valuable lesson in diversity and disability. He was able to utilize this with others as well. Great Job!